Author: Ruby Wax
Published: June
2013
Publisher: Hodder and
Stoughton
My rating: 5/5
I purchased this
book in the charming Welsh town of Hay-on-Wye
whilst on holiday last year. For those unfamiliar with the place, it is home to
around 38 bookshops so naturally my parents and I were drawn (much to the
dismay of my brother, who I think would rather have gone to the cinema and seen
terrible book-to-film adaptations).
The books that are
worthy of five stars are the ones that change your perspective on the world for
a minute. I think this is quite possibly the first non-fiction book to have had
that affect on me, making me honestly believe that every second of life is so
beautifully significant. The book is dedicated to ‘taming the mind’ through
gaining a basic understanding of how the mind works. The idea is that if you
can learn to comprehend how emotions are provoked, to an extent you may also
control them.
“Gloria Gaynor was wrong when
she sang, ‘I am what I am’. She will have to change those lyrics but it won’t
be so easy to dance to. What rhymes with neuroplasticity?”
Wax writes in a
style that both entertains and educates, whilst also bearing on some of her own
personal challenges. Her honesty is refreshing and relatable most of the time,
at many points I have been tempted to retrieve a pencil and circle lines with
the caption ‘LOL’ and ‘#sotrue’, but have refrained due to the fact that when
rereading the novel I do not want to cringe at my commentary.
The book is
divided into five sections; the first two sections talk about humanity and mental
disorders like depression, the next is basic neuroscience, then the last two
show you how to master your own thoughts. I found the third section so
interesting that I worried I might forget it later and wrote five pages of
notes on it, creating my own dictionary of neuroscience. When I reached the
fourth section, I realised how ridiculously pointless this was – I am not being
tested on the content of the novel and I will be able to refer to bits of the
novel later on – then read the remainder of the book like a normal person
would. The highlight of the novel was a method of mindfulness whereby Wax
instructed that the reader should put a piece of chocolate on their tongue and
spend time noticing the texture, taste sensations, how the mouth moves to chew
it etc. The technique aimed to remind the reader that they are often in
autopilot mode and do not think about how they are doing something, I sometimes
appear at school and ponder what actually happened during the weekend because I
honestly cannot recall, then get stuck in the clouds thinking about how to
spell ‘May’ and boom, it’s June and I have achieved nothing with my life. I
also appreciated being told to eat chocolate, that’s always a benefit of any
book.
I’d recommend this
book to literally anyone (okay, maybe not anyone, my cat would struggle with
it). The book has eight and a bit pages devoted to showing evidence that
mindfulness works and can significantly weaken depression, OCD, anxiety and
tons of other mental disorders that one in four of us suffer from. A few people
I’ve mentioned the book to have shuddered at the word ‘neuroscience’ and
‘psychology’ and even ‘brain’… I really don’t get the ‘brain’ reaction; a guy
in Arthur was nicknamed Brain and he was hardly daunting. Wax explains everything
so clearly that even I got what she was on about. For instance, at one point
she details how the somatosensory cortex has a map of body parts in order of
sensitivity by saying; “It’s as if your body parts are getting
bigger plots if they’re used; genitals and tongue the size of Texas ,
armpit is Chattanooga .”
I actually have a list of quotes from the book, but that’d make this
review way too long for anyone to bother looking at, so I’ll end it here.
I do hope that you
liked the review and will consider buying the book sometime. If anyone has any
other suggestions for books to read, or views on the book then please do comment them below!
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